Pound, Richard James “R.J.”

Richard J. “R.J.” Pound died unexpectedly on August 4th, in West Chester, Pennsylvania at the age of 21. He was born on July 24th, 1996 in Rochester, N.Y.

He leaves behind his parents, Rick and Angelina (Pellegrino) Pound, sisters Alexandra and Isabella Pound, all of Pittsford, grandparents, Rocco and Debbie Pellegrino of Batavia, Robert and Jane Pound of Watertown and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
R.J. graduated from Pittsford Mendon High School, where he played football, hockey, and lacrosse. He attended John Carroll University and Monroe Community College.

He was a kind, generous, and loving soul who was most content outdoors and in nature. He recently hiked the Appalachian Trail. R.J. was a free spirit who sought adventure at every opportunity. He marched to the beat of his own drum, always questioning why things are the way they are. He had an infectious smile and people, especially children, were drawn to him. R.J. loved his young cousins, and was adored by those who knew him. He accepted people at face value, and was protective of his friends. He spent several summers as a counselor at YMCA Camp Arrowhead. As a child, R.J. read all of the Harry Potter books, and he enjoyed James Patterson novels as a young adult. He was interested in history and wars, as well. R.J. loved all genres of music, and could quote the lyrics of any song. He had a great memory for facts and was always comfortable engaging in conversation.

Calling hours will be on Thursday, August 10th from 4-7 PM at Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home, 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport, N.Y. A mass of Christian burial will be at 2 PM on Friday August 11th at the Church of the Transfiguration, 50 West Bloomfield Road, Pittsford.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in R.J.’s name to Golisano Children’s Hospital at the University of Rochester Medical Center, where he spent 10 days as an infant.


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32 responses to “Pound, Richard James “R.J.””

  1. Susan Englert Avatar
    Susan Englert

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

  2. Emily Queiroz Avatar
    Emily Queiroz

    I will always remember RJ’s ability to make everyone in the room smile. We worked at Camp Arrowhead together, and it was always a joy when he was assigned my co- counselor. He was every kid’s favorite counselor, and knew how to make the darkest and stormiest days the most magical. I’ll never forget your kind heart. Rest easy, RJ. You’re at peace now

  3. suzanne merritt (great aunt) Avatar
    suzanne merritt (great aunt)

    sorry I cant be there to consol you. just thinkof all the happy times. I have walked in your shoes nothing worse then losing a child. remember the day when he was a little over a year old and he droped the keyes on the car floor and jane and everyone tried to open the car and he thought that was funny I will never forget it. love you all.

  4. Michele Regner Washburn Avatar
    Michele Regner Washburn

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  5. Kristi (Doe) McCuin Avatar
    Kristi (Doe) McCuin

    Ricky & Angelina,
    My condolences to you and your entire family! I pray that God gives you with the comfort and support that is needed during this very difficult time!!
    I am so sorry for your loss!!

  6. Tom McGowa Avatar
    Tom McGowa

    I Bob and Jane l am very sorry to hear of the loss of your grandson.

  7. Laurie Sharlow Avatar
    Laurie Sharlow

    I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to the Pound and Pellegrino families. Love and prayers to all.

  8. Laurie LaGorga Avatar
    Laurie LaGorga

    To all of the Pound Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, may the many wonderful memories you have help to heal your hearts. Bob and Jane, Randy, Lisa and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers as well.

  9. Rob + Rebecca Saiff Avatar
    Rob + Rebecca Saiff

    Rick, we are so sorry for you and your family’s loss. We are sure he was a wonderful person. There are no other words.

  10. Amy Souva Schneider Avatar
    Amy Souva Schneider

    Prayers for you and your family. No one should have to lose a child So sorry for your loss.. May God hold you in His embrace while you go through this difficult time.

  11. Daniel and Helen Neville Avatar
    Daniel and Helen Neville

    We share your sorrow and heartbreak.

  12. Phyllis Marshall Avatar
    Phyllis Marshall

    Jane and Bob so sorry for the loss of you grandson! You are in our thoughts and prayers!??????

  13. Jim and Roxie Fitch Avatar
    Jim and Roxie Fitch

    We are very sorry for.your loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you all.

  14. Jim and Roxie Fitch Avatar
    Jim and Roxie Fitch

    We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you all.

  15. Frank and Loretta Oliveri and family Avatar
    Frank and Loretta Oliveri and family

    So sorry Angelina to u and your family for your loss…praying God will give u all the strength u need to get through this!!!

  16. Eleanor Sexton Avatar
    Eleanor Sexton

    RIck and Angelina, I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you strong memories of RJ. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  17. Kurt Lanning Avatar
    Kurt Lanning

    Only God, and your faith in him will get you through these troubled times. I trust and pray that you will stay strong and gain strength each day going forth. Your entire family is in our prayers…

  18. Tom, Michele, Rob, Evan and Nate Shone Avatar
    Tom, Michele, Rob, Evan and Nate Shone

    Rick, Angelina and family – we were so sorry to hear of RJ’s passing. He was taken way too young but it sounds like he lived his short life fully and has left you with many happy memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

  19. James Keel Avatar
    James Keel

    My sincere condolences.

  20. Jason Taraska Avatar
    Jason Taraska

    Sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  21. Juli Cialone Avatar
    Juli Cialone

    I am so sorry for your loss. I remember just yesterday the boys all together and then taking his senior pics. I have no words. Please let me know if I can do anything near or far!

  22. Dr. James A Pietrovito Avatar
    Dr. James A Pietrovito

    My deepest sympathies and sincere condolences.

  23. scott dinzler Avatar
    scott dinzler

    Rick, so sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers for you and your family in this difficult time.

  24. Yvonne Heldt Avatar
    Yvonne Heldt

    So very sorry Rick. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  25. Nick Zappia Avatar
    Nick Zappia

    So sorry for your loss

  26. Randy Page, Skyworks Avatar
    Randy Page, Skyworks

    We are so sorry to hear about RJ. Our thoughts and prayer are with all your family.

  27. Howie MacLachlan Avatar
    Howie MacLachlan

    So so sorry for your loss Rick…..hugs and prayers to you and your family.

  28. Jon Keggins Avatar
    Jon Keggins

    Rick, My prayers go out to you and your family.

  29. Jennifer Avatar
    Jennifer

    I’m so sorry you all are going through this. Although you grieve please find comfort for your hearts in verses like Isaiah 25:8 where it says that God “will swallow up death forever, and will wipe the tears from all faces.” and John 5:28,29 where it says there will be a resurrection. Remembering those words has helped my husband and I deal with recent tragedies in our family. My sincere sympathies go out to you.

  30. Isabelle Granger Avatar
    Isabelle Granger

    Deeply sorry for your loss. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

  31. Mary Blum Avatar
    Mary Blum

    Rick, I am so saddened and sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son, R.J. May you find comfort in the love and support of family and friends. May you and your family feel the strong embrace and presence of God surrounding you. You and your family are in my heartfelt prayers. God’s peace be with you.

  32. Jori & Eric Cincotta Avatar
    Jori & Eric Cincotta

    Rick & Angelina – We just learned of RJ’s passing this evening. Words don’t express how sorry we are for your loss. Sending our prayers to you all. Give Bella a special hug for us. xx. The Cincotta’s